My Greatest Pleasure | Stephen Hedger

One of the greatest pleasures I have in coaching people through their problems is knowing that what I do is having a massive impact on their lives.

One lady who came to me a few weeks ago was having real problems with her life and relationship, but before we could focus on her relationship I had to start by helping her to build up her confidence in herself, by understanding how she works in detail.

We did this so she could know the journey she took to get to where she was a few weeks back. With this new understanding of how she works she is now empowered to take back control of her life direction which has now freed her to be happy to get the life she really wants.

She was shocked to discover that she had been holding on to a part of her past that had held her back for 35 years without her even knowing.

This is what she said…

For obvious reasons she wanted to remain anonymous.

I first came to see Stephen feeling extremely low and lost, Stephen in a couple of weeks has shown me that by changing my minds state I can freeÂ myself of the fear i have been carrying around with me for nearly 35 years, I am now starting for the first time in my life to see thingsÂ differently, I thought I was a hard nut to crack and there was no hope for me, Stephan has been Kind, Sincere and Honest and I would not hesitate to recommend him anyone.
Anon South London

Anyone can make a big change just like this lady. Problems are never permanent, and with the right focus a new world can be opened up and a new energy can be directed into the life you really want.

The only thing standing between a life and relationship you really want, is you

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
Many thanks
Olivia

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