This topic of masculine and feminine seems to generate a lot of confusion, debate and disagreement.
Some are not aware of it’s power in intimate relationships and why we should focus on this.
I saw a program where the person presenting suggested that all men are masculine and all women are feminine.
This is a common misunderstanding, and the audience were clearly not happy to be labelled this way.
You can have a masculine-looking man with feminine energy.
You can have a feminine looking woman with masculine energy.
In essence, masculine and feminine is about their energy, not about their physical appearance.
Why is this important?
In helping couples rebuild their connection, we very often discover that their natural energy has changed.
If a naturally feminine woman has to live as masculine energy in her marriage, she will suffer.
The switching of their masculine and feminine polarity which so many couples do without knowing causes many problems on both sides and will affect their connection, attraction, and sexual connection.
Many people are disconnected from this concept of masculine and feminine, but fully associated with the pain it causes, they have chosen to leave their marriage so they can reconnect to themselves.
It’s critical that each person lives their true centre in their marriage for the marriage to thrive.
This area of relationships is far more complex than this post suggests and is essential to get right for a natural and organic connection.
Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach
With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.
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