Discover what you love about your partner? | Stephen Hedger

We are so conditioned to look for whats wrong in our world we can use that model, or focus to run our relationships. So to contrast that usual focus on the negative what you would come up with if you were to focus on what it is you love about your partner.

After all you wouldn’t be with them if you didn’t love them, so lets help them to feel valued by YOU today.

What do you love about him or her?
What is it about them that makes you feel so alive inside?
What is is that makes you want to love them more?
What is it that they do that makes you laugh?
What is it that they say about you, that helps you to feel great about you?
What is it about them that helps you to know, how lucky you are to have them?
What is it that helps you both keep that passion alive?
What is it about them that helps you to know you have chosen so well with a life partner because they never stop putting you first.

Tell your partner this and far more about what it is you love about them, and why they are so special to you. Make it your mission this week to give the best of you to your wonderful partner.

Let us know how you got on..

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
Many thanks
Olivia

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