So this gentleman came to me upset and confused. What has happened to my marriage? What’s made her so unhappy, and why is she now speaking about
“I love you – but I’m not in love with you…”
So many couples can find themselves in this situation. It’s shocking to hear this sentence, and it can cause panic. The key to this situation is to
Couples in crisis are fixing the wrong problems!
Virtually every couple I meet has been trying to fix the wrong problem in their marriage and without knowing are damaging their connection and trust
My partner has just told me they don’t love me anymore – what do I do?
If your partner is telling you they no longer love you this shocking news can trigger a fear system within us that helps us behave in ways that are
“The Bulletproof Marriage”
We all like the theory of someone being our soul mate. Someone that has our back and will love us for life, someone that’s a friend and a lover.
Getting out of a marital crisis?
I now see roughly 20 couples per week, everyone in crisis and nearing divorce. Every one of these couples has broken their marriage in very unique
“I LOVE how I feel about ME when I’m with YOU!”
So what is the formula for a great marriage and why do so many people get it wrong? When you look at what we are all trying to achieve it boils down
“Just tell me what to do – I’m in a broken marriage?”
A person in a marital crisis is going to be looking for answers to stop their pain and get out of their suffering. Do I stay do I go? Do I fight for
Stuck in a broken marriage?
So many couples are suffering in a marriage that doesn’t work for them because they don’t have the knowledge or skills needed to keep their connection
Cloé said to me “A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor”
I'm not sure I quoted her correctly but my wife Cloé quoted these words to me a few weeks ago, and it instantly resonated with me in the context of
“My biggest life lesson”
Last year one gentleman asked me a great question. He said "...you deal with couples and individuals with all manner of problems and personal fears,
Natures cruellest trick is creating consistent marital stress
Virtually every person that comes into my programs is looking for me to change their partners' behaviours. I have rarely heard the message "my