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July 23, 2021

“Got the right map”?

Today I want to share a simple illustration that explains why couples are struggling to stay connected. The fundamental reason is because they have

July 22, 2021

The Relationship SuperPower

In today's post, I'm going to share a critical SuperPower that every couple must master if they are going to have a successful relationship for

July 20, 2021

Is the unhappy marriage the real problem?

So imagine the situation where a person feels they need to leave their marriage because it hasn't made them happy. Fair enough, you only get one

July 19, 2021

4 Shifts that saved her marriage

So I'm working with this couple, and a few things struck me about this woman. She was more than fed up with her marriage, she didn't want it to

July 9, 2021

She was going to leave him…

When a person's needs are not met, they can leave their partner many do leave but there is a problem with this. What do you do when a person is

June 28, 2021

“Mastery”!

We all know that to master anything, there has to be continuous and unwavering practice. We all know that mastery of anything can take years of

June 21, 2021

Commitment to yourself

One of the relationships I might look at when helping couples through their challenges is the individuals' commitment to themselves. You see, in

June 1, 2021

Empowerment

The process of rebuilding a couple's connection can only work when the process is about learning personal empowerment. Love doesn’t regrow when the

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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From Battlefield to Breakthrough: How to Save Your Marriage Without a Toxic Fight.

January 31, 2025 By Stephen Hedger

Most people who come to me for help believe their marriage is broken, so their level of hope is not high. Many will have tried to fix the problems without success. These people are unaware that there is a critical mindset shift: if you don’t make it, your chances of success dramatically drop. As you […]

“By changing yourself, you can change a relationship… because I did!”

September 16, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

We were in the process of physical separation, with my husband arranging to move out at the end of the month, and I was getting legal advice on proceeding with the divorce. On one of those distressed and sleepless nights, I came across Stephen’s website and his blog. I was fascinated. What Stephen has written […]

“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”

April 22, 2024 By Stephen Hedger

So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate homes? Most people would consider this the end, but this gentleman decided something different. He wrote to me to see if I could help. I wanted to encourage his […]

Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown

August 21, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed to help them out of their marital challenges. They were in crisis due to communication breakdown and infidelity. They had 12 meetings over five months to learn how to reconnect […]

His marriage was over!

June 5, 2023 By Stephen Hedger

This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded the marriage was indeed over. He had lost all feelings for his wife. Due to being so stuck for so long, he had started an affair. But […]