I asked this lady if she thought her husband was masculine or feminine. I asked this because her answer would lead me to what I needed to do to help
“Worst relationship mistake you can make”
When I look at the most destructive behaviours couples experience. Understanding this specific pattern can help them avoid many common relationship
The Buck Stops Here?
Virtually every person that comes for help has made their partner responsible for the state of their relationship. Someone in this common model of
“I was in tears…”
'Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years'
“Expect problems”!
So a couple in their early 40s book an initial consultation because they know their marriage is failing. They tell me something is wrong with their
“You can’t trust your brain until you’ve conditioned it”!
What happens when a person has doubt, especially doubt about their relationship? What this doubt creates is a person living a story that helps them
“Tortured by the past”!
What do you do when a past problem from years before stays alive in your marriage? One of the daily challenges I see in my sessions is a person
“People wanting a divorce”
People looking for a divorce will have been through a process, and I'll talk about one part of that process today. So before we get into this,
“How to change myself to save my marriage”?
More and more of my clients are starting to realise the old way of approaching struggling relationships really doesn't work. You can ask or tell