Making a marriage successful takes a shift of mindset. The thinking that creates problems is not the thinking that will solve them. What we are
“Sitting on the fence”
Many people have found themselves stuck in a marriage that is not working for them. They know they are unhappy and have been for a while. They
“Where is your integrity?”
INTEGRITY: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, critical for any marriage. What do we think of people who are not
True Story of Regret
This is a true story of a gentleman that searched for help and thought he knew best... This gentleman and his wife took me up on my free call. It's
No one knows what you need!
When a person's needs are consistently not met by their partner it can be enough for that person to want leave their marriage. This doesn't happen
Healthy sex life?
Couples who want a consistent healthy sex life need to understand there is "AN ORDER" needed to keep that sexual energy alive, especially in long-term
“You only get one life!”
Many years ago I was told the story of “The Boiled Frog” you may have heard it. It's the kind of story that can start to wake a person up to
Communication problems
"What do you actually hear when I speak?" A message from a frustrated husband. Communication is complex because each person will use very different
“This is why couples work fails!”
In today's post, I'm going to share why couples are struggling to solve their marriage problems either on their own or with professional help. You
A Thought for Sunday 😨
An interesting discovery about "relationship fears" is they can become self-fulfilling. Imagine a person who is worried that they are not enough
“I wished I’d never married you!!!”
I'm sat with a couple and they are describing an argument that sparked in her an uncontrollable rage. The gentleman told me his wife ended up
The Madness of Reactive Couples
Reactive couples in volume are leading each other into misery in their marriage. I spend my life helping couples to wake up to their reactive