One of the first coaches I ever came across said. "The brain will grow whatever you plant", so be very careful of what you keep focusing on or
Affair week starting Monday
This is more of a short heads up rather than my normal post. As someone, that deals with helping couples out of marital crisis one of the biggest
“My partner doesn’t fulfill my emotional needs…”
It's a typical message I receive in my sessions and it creates significant pain and suffering for that individual. There are a few parts to this
Attraction dynamics
Many couples are missing the foundations they will need to keep their passion and attraction for each other alive for life. There is a significant
The art of keeping it simple
Relationship problems are so complex, and with so many moving parts in the dynamic between two people of how on earth can anyone make sense of what is
Punishing our partners…
What are we all taught growing up? If we do something bad or something against the law, or against the rules, we will be punished. It starts
A thought for Sunday
Todays thought is a question of integrity! Below is a question many people have asked me in their sessions. Q: I’m a loving, kind person, but
My partner won’t let me forget the past
Why is it some people struggle to let go of the past? Are they bad partners are they being difficult? Do they want your life together to be
“My husband says he loves me but I don’t feel it”
I hear this story every day. The reason I hear it is because so many people are stuck in a number of patterns that are destructive on both sides and
“Don’t tell me what I mean!”
What do you do when your partner has a habit of changing your words and your meanings in conversations and then makes you responsible for their
What’s the root cause of our problems?
When a couple keeps experiencing the same old problems and they keep trying to fix the symptoms of the root problem they will suffer and many will
Does their pain matter?
So I asked this gentleman to help me with two scenarios. The first scenario was his wife was in the home upset shouting bad words at him. I