One of the most common challenges couples face is when they share their problems both people will have very different stories. On the one hand, I
Living The Victim Story
So what do you do when a person is having marriage problems due to them living the story they tell themselves about their marriage, life, partner and
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part Three
I'm qualified to judge if your upset is justified. Should a partner sit in judgement of their partners' upset or emotions? So I meet many people
Common misunderstandings – Part Two
Misunderstanding part two: "You have to give to others to get back what you need". This thinking is assuming that trading needs is a
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part One
Misunderstanding one: You have to love yourself before others will love you. I hear this misunderstanding a lot. So I asked one gentleman who
“Yes, you are incompatible”!
When a client mentions they are concerned they are incompatible, I can see the shock in their eyes when my answer is “yes, you are”! Any couple is
“The Pleaser”!
The plight of "The Pleaser" who ends up being a victim of their own behaviours without knowing. At first sight, a pleaser is a selfless person who
“Men that surrender their masculinity”
I see far too many men giving up their masculinity in a quest to give his wife what he thinks she wants and needs. Many men are totally lost when
How to rebuild trust in a marriage after…
Infidelity, lying, emotional affair, broken promises, addictions, loss of love, loss of emotional support and connection. Breaks of trust are