What do you do when a relationship has felt happy for years and then suddenly a negative change for no reason starts to take hold. What do you do
What does it really mean?
It's natural for a person to look for meaning in life events, but the desire for meaning can create catastrophic misunderstandings. How does a
Negative Pattern Switching
The art of Negative Pattern Switching is a key skill to learn especially if you are in a relationship. One of the energies that has a profound
“Crisis out of the blue”!
Some couples can find themselves in a confusing crisis because they have not experienced a specific problem. This is because they have lived in a
“What are you defending yourself for”?
Listening to so many couple's stories a person becoming defensive is a typical pattern I see every day. If someone is defending themselves then in
The Punishment Model
I know many people use a model of punishing their partner when they have done something they perceive to be wrong or upsetting. The problem with
“Never make this mistake”!
Never make the mistake of attaching your unhappiness to the wrong thing especially in a marriage. Look at what happens when a person is triggered
Expectations kill relationships
To understand why expectations can kill relationships we are going to firstly look at the formula for being upset? A person becomes upset when the
Can’t communicate? Find out why today…
Why do so many couples find it impossible to communicate, what is causing the problems that so many couples struggle with? Communication on the